Saturday, 28 December 2019

REVIEW - Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine - not great


Date read: 28th December 2019

My rating: 3*

Genre I reckon: Dark/Traumatised Romance

Buy link (for series): Amazon





A few people have compared this book to my own Self Love, so thought I'd better have a read. 
Yeah, they're not really alike. My Molly seems to have an easy time of things; her mother is just a bit over-critical. 

I had heard tell of Eleanor Oliphant being autistic and applauded this idea. However, she's not.
What Eleanor is is a deeply troubled, traumatised woman who has developed rather unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Childhood abuse (not sexual) of the highest degree has induced repressed memories. She has been rendered socially awkward and detached.

Miss Oliphant isn't terribly likeable. She's an isolated lady who very much keeps herself to herself. Her inner monologue is incredibly acerbic with regards to everyone in the world, including herself.
Yet I felt myself concerned over her wellbeing. I kept reading, hoping to leave her in a place of safety.

The book follows her path of healing. A few counselling sessions seem to do wonders for this incredibly traumatised person. Hmm...not terribly realistic! Seriously, she'd require YEARS of therapy. I'm not quite sure why she's not had more help already. I appreciate the system is often lacking but I'm fairly sure this girl would have had something.
The story doesn't end with her magically better; she pledges to continue counselling. However, despite this, she is doing remarkably well for someone who's just uncovered some horrific discoveries.

I did enjoy the other characters. Raymond and Sammy are a much-needed light relief.

Others have stated this is a funny book. Not really, no. The humour contained within, like the rest of the tale, is very dark.

The little head nods to Jane Eyre amused me. But by no means could the two books be compared.

I do enjoy dark books. And I liked the intention behind this novel.
It was oddly enjoyable.


I only review books I'd recommend to a friend on this blog.
Let me add this; I only recommend this particular book to those with a slightly macabre interest.

Always in love and light,
TL 

Should you wish to read a humorous novel where the character undergoes lighter life changes, then do think of Self Love, eh. 😉

Saturday, 21 December 2019

Regency - Christmas

What did Christmas look like in the Regency era?

Well, it was really quite different.
Prince Albert brought the whole tree into our Christmas a little later on, during the Victorian era, funnily enough.

Back in 1644(ish), the meany that was Oliver Cromwell and his Puritans banned Christmas in England (*boo hiss*).
But King Charles II claimed the throne, and the 1660s saw celebrations return.
The Georgians enjoyed Christmas, and then the Regency peeps.
In 1843, A Christmas Carol was published by Charles Dickens, bless him everyone, and its popularity sky-rocketed.

But we're talking about the Regency (1811-1820)...
We've already seen they were rather fond of merrymaking. So, it's not a huge surprise to hear that the social elite used Christmas as an excuse to party.

Picture the scene; a roaring fire, candles, greenery, the smell of spices...

Christmastide began on 6th December (St Nicholas Day), and didn't finish until 6th January (Twelfth Night) - yep, that's a whole month of Christmas!

There's many varying opinions on gift-giving, but general consensus seems to be that (rich) friends gave each other small gifts on St Nicholas Day. It certainly doesn't seem to have been a widespread thing.

The gentry retreated to their country estates for winter (before the roads became impassable).
Balls and parties would be held on the run-up to Christmas Day.
Children (boys) came home from boarding school. Relatives would flock together.

Social interaction was the key focus, charity included.

Mumpers, were widows. The Napoleonic Wars ensured there were plenty of these. And the Corn Laws only hurt them more. So many hungry, poor women! On 21st December (the Feast of St Thomas), these unfortunates went begging with bowls. They could be granted donations of cooked wheat, coins or food. They would give sprigs of holly or mistletoe in return, to bestow good luck to their benefactors.

Christmas Eve was the day to select the Yule Log. The largest log one could find. The would form the main centrepiece for their festivities.
Presumably, the servants rather than the nobles, wrapped the yule log in hazel twigs and dragged the blasted thing all the way to the house.
It was considered good luck to be the first to sit on the log. Goodness knows why, you'd be mostly likely to get all the insects crawl onto you, I'd imagine, but hey, that's what they thought.
The family would keep the last piece of charcoal from the previous year's yule log, and use that to light the fire of the new one. Isn't that rather lovely?
In front of the now roaring fire, the family would drink wassail and perhaps even play games, such as Puss in the Corner or an acrostic. Girls may even divine their true love at this time.


What's wassail? Oh, it's a beautiful thing. Basically, it's mulled cider. Hot, spicy yumminess.
Want a recipe? Here's one.

Other decorations, depending on whereabouts you lived, could include evergreen branches, holly, ivy, mistletoe, hawthorn, rosemary and Christmas rose (hellebore).
Kissing balls were a thing. Made of a mixture of the above, and perhaps dried oranges, apples, spices, ribbons and/or candles.

Christmas Eve may also find mummers at your door, not to be confused with the above mumpers. Mummers were travelling actors who dressed as outlandishly as possible; gilt/spangled caps and ribbons adorned their outfits. They'd go door-to-door asking if they were wanted. The master of the house may (or may not) grant them permission to enter their home. If permitted, they'd perform short plays and sing. They would expect a reward in coin and perhaps a little wassail.

There are some accounts of family gifting on Christmas Eve. Almanacs were popular for girls of age. Perhaps clothes or bookmarks. The very rich would possibly extend to jewellery or perfume.

Christmas Day was about church. It was a national holiday.
The whole family would go to church in the morning. Carols would not have been sung, generally. There may have been parts of Wales where they sang "Deck the Halls" or "Here We Come A-Wassailing". But it was the Victorians again who popularised carols.
This would be the only time friends would really wish each other a, "Merry Christmas."

I rather like this quote:
“I wish you a cheerful and at times even a Merry Christmas.” ~ Jane Austen

Photo taken by TL Clark at No.1 The Crescent, Bath

After their religious service, they would go home to a feast.
Wild boar went extinct in England around 1185, so the "boar's head" was more likely to be a pig btw.
There may be turkey or goose. But the gentry were fond of venison for their lunch; Bambi!!! 😱
What we've come to see as traditional veg, such as Brussels sprouts, potatoes, carrots, squash would be served with the meat, as well as stuffing - hoorah!

An absolute must was Christmas (plum) pudding. Something we Brits still insist upon today 😋 Plenty of dried fruit, a bit of flour and suet, steamed until there's nothing but rich, dark, spicy gooeyness. Don't forget to set fire to it first - yes, really!
Marchpane was also popular (aka marzipan). Gingerbread was welcomed too.



Mince pies (or slices of a larger Twelfth Night pie) were eaten each day of Christmastide for good luck. And yes, their mincemeat did actually contain meat (ours doesn't today). Ingredients could include: beef, suet, sugar, raisins, lemons, spices, orange peel, goose, tongue, fowl, eggs, apples and brandy.

I think snoozing in front of the fire would be a dead-cert after all that. But, gentle games are mentioned.

Then we come to Boxing Day.
St Stephen's Day to the Regency folk. Masters would give their staff Christmas boxes.
Charity was in abundance today. The rich would give to the poor.
And then go fox hunting!

Celebrations would continue up until Twelfth Night (5th January) - oh look, another party!
More wassail would be served. Maybe a game of snapdragon or blind man's bluff - ooh err! Masks and playacting could be involved. Perhaps a trip to the theatre for a pantomime.

And then it'd all be over. Decorations would come down, and they'd revert to...well, ordinary partying! lol



My own short story, centred around a Regency Christmas, is included in the charity anthology, Kissing and Other Scandalous Pastimes.
ALL proceeds are going to breast cancer research. It's priced at just £/$2.99.

And, of course, there's always my full-length novel, Regency Love ;-)


Other websites featuring a Regency Christmas:



Thank you for reading.
If it's appropriate at the time of reading, Merry Christmas to you 😘🎅🎄


Always in love and light,
TL

Friday, 20 December 2019

REVIEW - Midnight Temptation & Torment - oooowwwww

Date read: 20th December 2019

My rating: 4*

Genre I reckon: Shifter Romance

Buy link (for series): Amazon
(available as ebook, audio and paperback)

Follow author on Facebook: L. Ann

Sometimes a large TBR gets in the way! I read book 1 of this series way back in January 😲
So, to make up for it, I've now read books 2 and 3 in quick succession. But then, having read book 2 I HAD to dive straight into book 3!

Can we just take a minute to admire these covers here? 😍 Awooga!!!

Let me start with a little caution: this series does contain women who have been abused. Not in great detail of what they went through, but those with a sensitivity to that may not want to read this.
And these guys, well, they're full on alphas, baby.
You've been warned!

OK, with all that out the way, let me just say I really enjoyed this series.
Each book looks at a different blokey from the trifecta.
My review of Midnight Touch (book 1) reflected on how I loved Shaun, the good guy with a bad past.

Now, in book 2, the focus shifts to Deacon. Man, that guy's an a*hole! But a lovable one 😁
He's a lone wolf...or always has been until now.
Gemma has been through a LOT! And he forces her to face her problems head on.
I love their interactions. Snark meets snarkier!
Has Deacon bitten off more than he can chew?
There's a whole heap of action; the pack are being hunted.


Then in book 3, Midnight Torment, we get to see more of Cormac. He's always seemed to distant but then he is the alpha of the Midnight Pack.
Who's afraid of the big bad wolf? Well, everyone should be!!
The path to true love never runs smooth, and this book has so many challenges. Can any of them survive? Will Damien ever pay for his monstrous crimes?
Long-term plans are just rising to the surface.

I'm so conscious of spoilers here.
But, what we see in each book is that if you scratch the surface of big, rough, tough guys, you get to see their inner selves. There is goodness waiting for the right woman.
And make no mistake, the women in these books are tough cookies!

But what you get with these is so much more than testosterone-fuelled hotness. Sure, there's plenty of that. However, there's a lot of healing and overcoming difficulties. The work involved is real!

The possessiveness created by the mate-link is extreme - there is nothing the guys won't do to protect their females.

If you love shifters you HAVE to read this series!



Always in love and light,
TL

Monday, 2 December 2019

REVIEW - A Court of Mist and Fury - furiously entertaining!!

Date read: 2nd December 2019

My rating: 5*

Genre I reckon: NAish fantasy

Buy link: Amazon






OMG, be warned - this book ends with you shouting, "NOOOOO!!!!!" 😱

I discovered in book 1 (review of ACOTAR here) that Rhys was my favourite character. Nothing has changed except that has become more intense! Just wow!!

Feyre grows into herself in this book. She's still a bit self-absorbed, but hey, a lot has happened so she's allowed. And given the right circumstances, she starts to bloom.

The love scenes in book 1 were a bit short and sweet. Maas makes us wait for them in this, but boy, they're worth the pay-off! STEAMY!!

And the fight scenes...

And the tension...

And..and...and...

EEP!

I really don't want to say too much for fear of spoilers.

Just read both books NOW!
My favourite book of the year is right here.
Magick, mystery, cunning, twists, right is wrong and wrong is right; it has it all.

(*goes to download the next book which is mercifully out*)




Always in love and light,
TL